FOR YOU
BLOW HIS MIND
If you're happy to go down, don't lose sight of what's going on upstairs in his head. Frankly, you're tugging at his brains down there, so you need to pick up on every moan or groan he gives. The better you understand each other, however, the more comfortable you'll feel.
Many people gag at the idea of going down on a dick. Even if it's clean as a whistle, there's always the fear he'll forget himself, leaving you to deal with an out of control organ with no apparent off-switch. TheSite suggests you grip his penis head as you approach it, and hold it there in a ring formed by your thumb and forefinger. Once he's in, feel free to place your hands around the penis shaft. This gives you control, allowing you to determine how much you want to take into your mouth.
What goes on when you're down there is entirely up to you. Some women use their mouth as if it were a hoover. Others employ their tongue to great effect. Many do a combination of both. Just be aware that there is no industry standard. Do whatever feels comfortable, and gives you both the greatest satisfaction. Kissing. Nibbling. Even humming a note with his head in your mouth. Whatever you do, he won't complain!
Giving head is not an endurance test. You are doing it to him, and not the other way round, so if you want to come up for air then do so. If anything, it'll give him time out to appreciate what you're doing.
If the male penis is a motor, his balls are the gear shift. Gently cupping his testicles will widen the area of sexual pleasure for him, and can even intensify his orgasm.
Even if he's reached the moment of no return, never feel obliged to let him climax in your mouth. It's your decision, and is entirely determined by how comfortable you feel with it. If you want to swallow, that's fine. If you don't, that's fine too. If you'd rather take his penis out of your mouth then the same sentiment applies. Whether you choose to go down for a second or so, a minute or more, or all the way to the end, no blow job is ever incomplete. Nor is it a compulsory act, and he shouldn't think any less of you if you choose to keep your head held high!
Thursday, 13 January 2011
GIVING HIM GOOD HEAD-PART ONE
What's the secret to giving and receiving great head? Here's what you can do for the man in your life, making sure it's good for you both.
FOR HIM
KEEP IT CLEAN
Anyone who's gone down on an uncircumcised penis will tell you that there's nothing worse in this world than an unwashed dick. Smegma bacillus, or knob cheese, is a waxy white deposit naturally secreted by the penis glands. Failure to wash underneath the foreskin can lead to smelly bacterial growth, not to mention serious problems securing a blow job. Keep it clean using unperfumed soap and water. Also be sure to dry the head thoroughly afterwards to prevent bacteria from thriving.
So you're sharing an intimate moment. You're both turned on like the National Grid, and sex is on the cards. So guys, don't ruin the moment by placing your palm on the crown of her head and slowly pressing. If she feels comfortable going down there, she'll venture south on her own accord. As so many women have told us, there's nothing worse than a bloke who expects a blow job.
Tempting as it is to lie back with your eyes squeezed tightly shut, your partner will appreciate some recognition for their efforts. Be encouraging. Be respectful. Be the one who leaves them feeling as good as you.
Just because your partner has consented to give you a blow job, don't assume it means they want to go all the way. It may be a dream come true for you, but not if it leaves them gagging or nauseous. So talk it through with them, even if it is a running commentary. If you're about to ejaculate then tell them, or at least signal that it's about to happen. Always let your partner decide whether to stay down there for the main event.
FOR HIM
KEEP IT CLEAN
Anyone who's gone down on an uncircumcised penis will tell you that there's nothing worse in this world than an unwashed dick. Smegma bacillus, or knob cheese, is a waxy white deposit naturally secreted by the penis glands. Failure to wash underneath the foreskin can lead to smelly bacterial growth, not to mention serious problems securing a blow job. Keep it clean using unperfumed soap and water. Also be sure to dry the head thoroughly afterwards to prevent bacteria from thriving.
So you're sharing an intimate moment. You're both turned on like the National Grid, and sex is on the cards. So guys, don't ruin the moment by placing your palm on the crown of her head and slowly pressing. If she feels comfortable going down there, she'll venture south on her own accord. As so many women have told us, there's nothing worse than a bloke who expects a blow job.
Tempting as it is to lie back with your eyes squeezed tightly shut, your partner will appreciate some recognition for their efforts. Be encouraging. Be respectful. Be the one who leaves them feeling as good as you.
Just because your partner has consented to give you a blow job, don't assume it means they want to go all the way. It may be a dream come true for you, but not if it leaves them gagging or nauseous. So talk it through with them, even if it is a running commentary. If you're about to ejaculate then tell them, or at least signal that it's about to happen. Always let your partner decide whether to stay down there for the main event.
Monday, 10 January 2011
ANAL SEX
WHAT IS ANAL SEX?
Anal sex (also known as anal intercourse) is when a man puts his penis into the anus and rectum of another man or woman.
Some people might have strong objections, especially religious or moral objections to anal sex.
Others may feel uncomfortable about the idea of anal sex simply because it's not something
they think they will find enjoyable or want to try. For others however, anal intercourse is a very enjoyable way
to have sex.
Anal sex is often portrayed as something that only gay men do. This is not true.
Many straight couples engage in anal sex, while many gay men have never tried it.
Anyone wanting to try anal sex should make sure that their partner really wants to do it.
If one person wants to try it but the other doesn't, it is better to stick to other forms of sex that both partners enjoy.
If a couple do decide to have anal sex, they should think about using a water-based lubricant, like KY Jelly,
and a good quality condom. They should also take it slowly. The lining of the rectum is delicate and easily damaged
during vigorous thrusting, particularly if the receiving partner is not relaxed.
There is a popular misconception that anal intercourse between a woman and man is a good way to avoid pregnancy.
Anal sex does carry a lower risk of pregnancy than vaginal sex,
but pregnancy can still occur if any semen leaks out of the anus and into the vagina.
Using condoms is a more reliable way of preventing pregnancy,
and they will also protect against sexually transmitted infections.
Anal sex (also known as anal intercourse) is when a man puts his penis into the anus and rectum of another man or woman.
Some people might have strong objections, especially religious or moral objections to anal sex.
Others may feel uncomfortable about the idea of anal sex simply because it's not something
they think they will find enjoyable or want to try. For others however, anal intercourse is a very enjoyable way
to have sex.
Anal sex is often portrayed as something that only gay men do. This is not true.
Many straight couples engage in anal sex, while many gay men have never tried it.
Anyone wanting to try anal sex should make sure that their partner really wants to do it.
If one person wants to try it but the other doesn't, it is better to stick to other forms of sex that both partners enjoy.
If a couple do decide to have anal sex, they should think about using a water-based lubricant, like KY Jelly,
and a good quality condom. They should also take it slowly. The lining of the rectum is delicate and easily damaged
during vigorous thrusting, particularly if the receiving partner is not relaxed.
There is a popular misconception that anal intercourse between a woman and man is a good way to avoid pregnancy.
Anal sex does carry a lower risk of pregnancy than vaginal sex,
but pregnancy can still occur if any semen leaks out of the anus and into the vagina.
Using condoms is a more reliable way of preventing pregnancy,
and they will also protect against sexually transmitted infections.
MASTURBATE
HOW DO YOU MASTURBATE?
A woman usually masturbates by rubbing, stroking or squeezing her clitoris。
The clitoris is the most sensitive sexual part of a woman.
She might also touch her breasts and other sensitive areas of her body.
A man usually masturbates by stroking, rubbing or 'pumping' his penis, and may concentrate particularly on the tip,
which is the most sensitive part. Masturbation is sometimes referred to as playing with yourself, or, especially with men,
jerking off, a hand job, or wanking.
People don't necessarily begin masturbating when they reach puberty.
Some people hardly ever masturbate, and others masturbate a lot.
It varies according to how a person feels. Many people masturbate even when they are in a relationship with someone.
Masturbation can last as long as you want, but generally people masturbate for between a few minutes and half an hour.
There is no physical reason why you should or shouldn't masturbate.
It is not true that you'll go blind if you masturbate, or that you will become weak or lose your health.
It is not possible to masturbate too much, though you should stop if you start to make yourself feel sore.
Some people think that if a man doesn't masturbate his testes will fill up with sperm. This is not true;
the sperm are just absorbed into his body.
It is also not true that women who think about sex or masturbate are 'easy'.
A woman usually masturbates by rubbing, stroking or squeezing her clitoris。
The clitoris is the most sensitive sexual part of a woman.
She might also touch her breasts and other sensitive areas of her body.
A man usually masturbates by stroking, rubbing or 'pumping' his penis, and may concentrate particularly on the tip,
which is the most sensitive part. Masturbation is sometimes referred to as playing with yourself, or, especially with men,
jerking off, a hand job, or wanking.
People don't necessarily begin masturbating when they reach puberty.
Some people hardly ever masturbate, and others masturbate a lot.
It varies according to how a person feels. Many people masturbate even when they are in a relationship with someone.
Masturbation can last as long as you want, but generally people masturbate for between a few minutes and half an hour.
There is no physical reason why you should or shouldn't masturbate.
It is not true that you'll go blind if you masturbate, or that you will become weak or lose your health.
It is not possible to masturbate too much, though you should stop if you start to make yourself feel sore.
Some people think that if a man doesn't masturbate his testes will fill up with sperm. This is not true;
the sperm are just absorbed into his body.
It is also not true that women who think about sex or masturbate are 'easy'.
HOW TO HAVE BETTER SEX-PART TWO
NUMBER FOUR
MASSAGE
Sensual touch is one of the most highly relaxing and sexy things you can do for your partner,
which is why it makes it onto our 10 tips for better sex list.
Our bodies are almost without exception tense in some area, if not many areas.
This hinders our energy flow -- including sexual energy flow.
Imagine a car that has a clogged fuel filter: the fuel (our energy)
can’t get to where it needs to go quickly and smoothly, and the car performs inefficiently and ineffectively.
A relaxing sensual massage can unlock her body to some very intense orgasms and much better sex in the end.
The ability to relax your partner in this way should be high on your list of skills to master.
The same goes for her: The difference between a deeply relaxing massage and a sensual massage is in the manner of touch
-you don’t want to relax her too deeply because she will probably fall straight to sleep.
NUMBER FIVE
BLINDFOLD HIM/HER
Sexual pleasure has many dimensions, but the most important sexual organ we have is our brain.
When one sense is hindered, our other senses -- via the brain -- clamor to compensate.
For example, a deaf person has increased sensory awareness -- sight, smell, touch, and vibrations.
we're telling you that you can tap into this innate ability of ours and use it to your advantage blindfolding your partner
increases her sensory awareness.
She doesn’t know where you are or what you are going to do next.
This creates anticipation for better sex -- the tease. Tease her mercilessly with sensory objects,
such as a feather or your tongue. Start off softly, as this excites her nerve endings and makes them far more sensitive.
Be careful not to overstimulate the nerve endings, however,
because after a while the neurons stop firing with such intensity and the sensation becomes null and void.
NUMBER SIX
GIVE HIM/HER INSRUCTIONS
After a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is very rarely true.
There's always something you haven’t tried,there is something one of you always does that could be done differently.
To combat this for better sex, have a lesson session in which you don’t think you know it all, and are at each other's
mercy as teacher.
Talk about things you haven’t tried, but would like to, then choose one suggestion from each partner,
and get down and dirty. LET THE GOOD TIMES ROLL
MASSAGE
Sensual touch is one of the most highly relaxing and sexy things you can do for your partner,
which is why it makes it onto our 10 tips for better sex list.
Our bodies are almost without exception tense in some area, if not many areas.
This hinders our energy flow -- including sexual energy flow.
Imagine a car that has a clogged fuel filter: the fuel (our energy)
can’t get to where it needs to go quickly and smoothly, and the car performs inefficiently and ineffectively.
A relaxing sensual massage can unlock her body to some very intense orgasms and much better sex in the end.
The ability to relax your partner in this way should be high on your list of skills to master.
The same goes for her: The difference between a deeply relaxing massage and a sensual massage is in the manner of touch
-you don’t want to relax her too deeply because she will probably fall straight to sleep.
NUMBER FIVE
BLINDFOLD HIM/HER
Sexual pleasure has many dimensions, but the most important sexual organ we have is our brain.
When one sense is hindered, our other senses -- via the brain -- clamor to compensate.
For example, a deaf person has increased sensory awareness -- sight, smell, touch, and vibrations.
we're telling you that you can tap into this innate ability of ours and use it to your advantage blindfolding your partner
increases her sensory awareness.
She doesn’t know where you are or what you are going to do next.
This creates anticipation for better sex -- the tease. Tease her mercilessly with sensory objects,
such as a feather or your tongue. Start off softly, as this excites her nerve endings and makes them far more sensitive.
Be careful not to overstimulate the nerve endings, however,
because after a while the neurons stop firing with such intensity and the sensation becomes null and void.
NUMBER SIX
GIVE HIM/HER INSRUCTIONS
After a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is very rarely true.
There's always something you haven’t tried,there is something one of you always does that could be done differently.
To combat this for better sex, have a lesson session in which you don’t think you know it all, and are at each other's
mercy as teacher.
Talk about things you haven’t tried, but would like to, then choose one suggestion from each partner,
and get down and dirty. LET THE GOOD TIMES ROLL
HOW TO HAVE BETTER SEX-PART ONE
NUMBER ONE
TRY A NEW PLACE
Sex in a new locale is definitely up there in exciting things to do for better sex.
You can take a drive somewhere secluded where you can get a bit risqué.
Try a public place (not too public) or simply move to a different room
or area in your home -- or even someone else’s home. Whatever tickles your fancy.
There are a million and one different places to have sex other than your home, in your bed -- use them.
INCREASE YOUR PLEASURE
The list of helpful hints you have been presented with equates to a very good head start to a better sex life.
The time and energy required to plan your adventures will pay off immediately,
but also over the longer term.
You will be rewarded according to the effort you put in with a great new skill set, and of course better sex.
Make time, conserve some energy for it and relax. Life is short!
NUMBER TWO
USE A COCK RING
Cock rings slow the drain of blood out of your erection, and keep you harder for longer.
A very hard penis stimulates a woman’s insides slightly differently and much better than one that is getting
soft around the edges. Cock rings are inexpensive and usually nice to look at, and make an interesting male sex toy
to add to your collection. Cock rings ensure that you can maintain the pace without faltering for better sex.
This is very pleasing to your lady friend.
NUMBER THREE
TRY A NEW POSITION
You already know how to bring her to orgasm in two ways (probably). You repeat these regularly
because they work there's no harm in that.
However, if you never, ever try any new positions again, how will you ever know? New positions need a reasonably
high level of arousal in your lover, so choose your time to strike a new pose when she is quite obviously
feeling very randy.
There is no limit to the number of ways to have sex, so you can use your imagination and come up with as many weird
and wonderful inventions as you desire.
Simply changing locations can dramatically change the position, so consider this too
(for example on top of the washing machine, on a bench, beanbag or table).
TRY A NEW PLACE
Sex in a new locale is definitely up there in exciting things to do for better sex.
You can take a drive somewhere secluded where you can get a bit risqué.
Try a public place (not too public) or simply move to a different room
or area in your home -- or even someone else’s home. Whatever tickles your fancy.
There are a million and one different places to have sex other than your home, in your bed -- use them.
INCREASE YOUR PLEASURE
The list of helpful hints you have been presented with equates to a very good head start to a better sex life.
The time and energy required to plan your adventures will pay off immediately,
but also over the longer term.
You will be rewarded according to the effort you put in with a great new skill set, and of course better sex.
Make time, conserve some energy for it and relax. Life is short!
NUMBER TWO
USE A COCK RING
Cock rings slow the drain of blood out of your erection, and keep you harder for longer.
A very hard penis stimulates a woman’s insides slightly differently and much better than one that is getting
soft around the edges. Cock rings are inexpensive and usually nice to look at, and make an interesting male sex toy
to add to your collection. Cock rings ensure that you can maintain the pace without faltering for better sex.
This is very pleasing to your lady friend.
NUMBER THREE
TRY A NEW POSITION
You already know how to bring her to orgasm in two ways (probably). You repeat these regularly
because they work there's no harm in that.
However, if you never, ever try any new positions again, how will you ever know? New positions need a reasonably
high level of arousal in your lover, so choose your time to strike a new pose when she is quite obviously
feeling very randy.
There is no limit to the number of ways to have sex, so you can use your imagination and come up with as many weird
and wonderful inventions as you desire.
Simply changing locations can dramatically change the position, so consider this too
(for example on top of the washing machine, on a bench, beanbag or table).
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