NUMBER FOUR
MASSAGE
Sensual touch is one of the most highly relaxing and sexy things you can do for your partner,
which is why it makes it onto our 10 tips for better sex list.
Our bodies are almost without exception tense in some area, if not many areas.
This hinders our energy flow -- including sexual energy flow.
Imagine a car that has a clogged fuel filter: the fuel (our energy)
can’t get to where it needs to go quickly and smoothly, and the car performs inefficiently and ineffectively.
A relaxing sensual massage can unlock her body to some very intense orgasms and much better sex in the end.
The ability to relax your partner in this way should be high on your list of skills to master.
The same goes for her: The difference between a deeply relaxing massage and a sensual massage is in the manner of touch
-you don’t want to relax her too deeply because she will probably fall straight to sleep.
NUMBER FIVE
BLINDFOLD HIM/HER
Sexual pleasure has many dimensions, but the most important sexual organ we have is our brain.
When one sense is hindered, our other senses -- via the brain -- clamor to compensate.
For example, a deaf person has increased sensory awareness -- sight, smell, touch, and vibrations.
we're telling you that you can tap into this innate ability of ours and use it to your advantage blindfolding your partner
increases her sensory awareness.
She doesn’t know where you are or what you are going to do next.
This creates anticipation for better sex -- the tease. Tease her mercilessly with sensory objects,
such as a feather or your tongue. Start off softly, as this excites her nerve endings and makes them far more sensitive.
Be careful not to overstimulate the nerve endings, however,
because after a while the neurons stop firing with such intensity and the sensation becomes null and void.
NUMBER SIX
GIVE HIM/HER INSRUCTIONS
After a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is very rarely true.
There's always something you haven’t tried,there is something one of you always does that could be done differently.
To combat this for better sex, have a lesson session in which you don’t think you know it all, and are at each other's
mercy as teacher.
Talk about things you haven’t tried, but would like to, then choose one suggestion from each partner,
and get down and dirty. LET THE GOOD TIMES ROLL
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